Good days, bad days

daily living, Life, wellbeing

 

yeats

From W.B.Yeats poem

 

It’s always been like this. And hard to accept that the challenge is to get up every day and face what is ahead. Easier for some than others, and that in itself is a difficult consideration to process – that my life has always had the comfort and ease of being born in this century in a first world country – there is guilt in feeling any dismay when there are problems of hunger and terrorism affecting millions every  day.  First world guilt paralyses me. I end up chasing my own tail and trying to find some meaning in life through my relationships with the family I love and through the creative endeavour I call work but which is really play.

I cannot stop weeping – the tears are inside, I could cry that river if I ever dare to open that floodgate.  Recently I made a small decision which affects everyone around me, and has brought me to realisations of my own. For the past couple of decades (almost) I have taken prescribed medication to control the symptoms of a neurological disorder – the meds help to control disrupted pain signals, but they are in the anti depressant family.

It’s complicated – of course – what’s me, what’s my stage of life (menopause), what’s the condition, what’s the meds?  So I am simplifying things a little, now I have less familial duties to fulfil. The meds are gone – first a euphoria, a feeling of connection with the world that has been dulled somewhat – but accompanying that lightness of being are emotions that rattle around like a toy railway train out of control – is this me?

Who knows? This is a territory I haven’t explored for some time and I think there’s some rocky roads ahead, but walking boots on – I mean to try.

 

8 thoughts on “Good days, bad days

  1. “It’s always been like this.” – That’s true for so many of us and apparently very hard for others (including therapists) to grasp. This is our norm; this is us. Sure, we want to change, to escape, but it’s not like we’re returning to something. We’re trying to go into something new and different (that I’m not sure actually even exists).

    This is a good post. I wish I could help you on your journey.

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    1. that is so kind – I am hopeful in a downbeat sort of way. I embrace the paradox – I think paradox is a country we have to learn to live in. Still find it difficult after 57 years of trying!

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